Today would have been my Father's 95th Birthday.
Already, he's been gone to Heaven for 20 years,
and my Mother joined him there 7 years ago.
There are days still, when it feels like I could
pick up the phone
and hear their voices
checking in on my day, and my home here.
But their HOME has become so much more
than I can now realize,
FOREVER in the presence of Jesus.
Just one year before he left us, my Dad and my Mom
celebrated their 50th Wedding Anniversary.
They renewed their vows, and we celebrated with them
a love that had stood the test of time.
I longed to give them a meaningful gift,
and finally knew what it would be when I heard this Michael Card song, popular in the '90's.
I hand-lettered the lyrics and framed it specially,
and cried as I let the words sink deep into my heart:
(Thank you, Joy Lenton, for your wonderful post about Advent and Home
over at the Godspace Community that stirred my remembering this week.)
But as this current Season of Transition continues
to bring thoughts of transformation and growth
to my mind,
the looking-back that came through that song
has brought an amazing touch of
FREEDOM
to my life.
If you had looked at my life as it related to my Mother,
and if you had known me during any of those years,
you would have seen that ANXIETY
was ingrained,
and WORRY attached itself
to any and every conversation
held with her.
I carried a hidden shame, knowing that
I was required to be the peace-giver
to still those worries,
and take care of the issues
that held her heart in fear.
I carried a hidden shame, knowing that
I could be passing along those
same weights of anxiety
to my own children.
But just as surely as God uncovers the hidden weaknesses,
He will bring the healing that is needed for
those broken places to be made whole.
And when I read the Bible Verse
given to me today for my daily verse,
my heart leaped in HOPE
because it was the very verse given to me
as I began the journey to pray for those
generational chains
to be broken:
"Instead of your shame
over at the Godspace Community that stirred my remembering this week.)
But as this current Season of Transition continues
to bring thoughts of transformation and growth
to my mind,
the looking-back that came through that song
has brought an amazing touch of
FREEDOM
to my life.
If you had looked at my life as it related to my Mother,
and if you had known me during any of those years,
you would have seen that ANXIETY
was ingrained,
and WORRY attached itself
to any and every conversation
held with her.
I carried a hidden shame, knowing that
I was required to be the peace-giver
to still those worries,
and take care of the issues
that held her heart in fear.
I carried a hidden shame, knowing that
I could be passing along those
same weights of anxiety
to my own children.
But just as surely as God uncovers the hidden weaknesses,
He will bring the healing that is needed for
those broken places to be made whole.
And when I read the Bible Verse
given to me today for my daily verse,
my heart leaped in HOPE
because it was the very verse given to me
as I began the journey to pray for those
generational chains
to be broken:
"Instead of your shame
you will receive a double portion,
and instead of disgrace
you will rejoice in your inheritance.
And so you will inherit a double portion in your land,
and everlasting joy will be yours"
and instead of disgrace
you will rejoice in your inheritance.
And so you will inherit a double portion in your land,
and everlasting joy will be yours"
Isaiah 61:7 NIV
Today, my Dad's Birthday,
Today, the day I start physical therapy
for yet another painful area,
Today is the day I can see the double portion
given to me:
A lasting inheritance to rejoice in!
My Mother and Father are free
in their FOREVER HOME,
and I have been blessed with the
EVERLASTING JOY
of
JESUS LIVING IN ME.
My parents gave me the Gift of Jesus,
and
He brings everything
that I could possibly need:
every healing and
every freedom,
These are my Inheritance.
Can you still your thoughts
and
ease your burdens down
and
listen along with me?
What if we could see
during this time of Advent,
and preparing for Christmas,
that HE who came to dwell with us,
is really our
HOME,
our INHERITANCE,
far more costly and pure
than anything else
handed down through the generations?
Home by Michael Card
"Home is a comfort and home is a light
A place to leave the darkness outside
Home is a peaceful and ever full feeling
A place where the soul safely hides
And being at home should remind you that still
There's a place that's prepared just for you
And I think that my home is just heaven's reflection
As long as my home is here with you
Home is where someone is waiting and loving
And happy to see you again
That half of your heart that somebody else treasures
The one who's your forever friend
But it seems that He's told me, the life that He's shown me
Is a life mostly spent on the road
But when the world's empty charm has done all of its harm
I know that His love waits for me in your arms
'cause home is a comfort and home is a light
A place to leave the darkness outside
Home is a peaceful and ever full feeling
A place where a soul safely hides
And being at home should remind you that still
There's a place that's prepared just for you
And I think that my home is just heaven's reflection
As long as my home is here with you"
I am linking this week over at these great sites:
#TellHisStory, Jennifer Dukes Lee
#TeaAndWordTuesday, Meg Weyerbacher
#LiveFreeThursday Suzie Eller
Today, my Dad's Birthday,
Today, the day I start physical therapy
for yet another painful area,
Today is the day I can see the double portion
given to me:
A lasting inheritance to rejoice in!
My Mother and Father are free
in their FOREVER HOME,
and I have been blessed with the
EVERLASTING JOY
of
JESUS LIVING IN ME.
My parents gave me the Gift of Jesus,
and
He brings everything
that I could possibly need:
every healing and
every freedom,
These are my Inheritance.
Can you still your thoughts
and
ease your burdens down
and
listen along with me?
What if we could see
during this time of Advent,
and preparing for Christmas,
that HE who came to dwell with us,
is really our
HOME,
our INHERITANCE,
far more costly and pure
than anything else
handed down through the generations?
Home by Michael Card
"Home is a comfort and home is a light
A place to leave the darkness outside
Home is a peaceful and ever full feeling
A place where the soul safely hides
And being at home should remind you that still
There's a place that's prepared just for you
And I think that my home is just heaven's reflection
As long as my home is here with you
Home is where someone is waiting and loving
And happy to see you again
That half of your heart that somebody else treasures
The one who's your forever friend
But it seems that He's told me, the life that He's shown me
Is a life mostly spent on the road
But when the world's empty charm has done all of its harm
I know that His love waits for me in your arms
'cause home is a comfort and home is a light
A place to leave the darkness outside
Home is a peaceful and ever full feeling
A place where a soul safely hides
And being at home should remind you that still
There's a place that's prepared just for you
And I think that my home is just heaven's reflection
As long as my home is here with you"
I am linking this week over at these great sites:
#TellHisStory, Jennifer Dukes Lee
#TeaAndWordTuesday, Meg Weyerbacher
#LiveFreeThursday Suzie Eller