Thursday, March 2, 2017

Die Before You Die



Today marks the 100th post I've written for this blog! Wow, I feel like I should be celebrating. When I obeyed the prompting of Jesus to write out my thoughts on living this Journey with Rheumatoid Arthritis, I little knew the adventures He had planned for me.  Opening my heart to post the trials and the joys along the way has led me to jewels that I never would have gathered had I chosen to ignore those promptings. 

I wish that I could have tea and cake (gluten and dairy free, of course) with each of you that I have met along the way! This online community that I have entered into, with both old and new friends, has brought to me an awakening of how truly we are all deeply joined together.  And one of those communities is over at Michele Morin's site: 
where she has been leading a wonderful book study on C.S. Lewis' Till We Have Faces. After today, there will only be one more unit, and then we are finished.  

My Mother always told me that if I wasn't careful, I would lose myself in the books that I read.  I can still hear her voice telling me to "put that book down, and get to work!"  (But she was just as apt to lose herself in a good book too!)  This book study has proven to be one of those instances, only loosing myself has been a good thing this time around.



As Orual approached her own life's ending, and after her encounter at the strange temple, she began the writing down of her story.  But what she found along the way was that her own memories had deceived her.  She began to find an uglier face to her soul than even her physical face had borne.  When her trusted counselor, Bardia, died, and she faced the love that she had for him, she ventured to Bardia's widow to bring her a measure of comfort. But the revealing that was uncovered there was a process that began the unveiling that Orual had long tried to avoid.  Bardia's widow accused Orual of being the cause for his death, 


"I know, that your queenship drank up his blood year by year and ate out his life. . . You're full fed. Gorged with other men's lives, and women's too: Bardia's, mine, the Fox's your sister's--both your sisters'."

As the awful truth began to settle in, she realized that what she had called love, had actually been selfishness, control, and manipulation. The temple ceremonies brought a fresh wounding, as Orual saw that the god, Ungit, vainly worshipped by her people, and long despised by herself, could not compare with the sickness that she saw in her own heart. Finally, in a dream, Orual looked in a mirror and saw not just an ugly image, but a deeper revealing of her heart:


"It was I who was Ungit. That ruinous face was mine. Glome was a web--I the swollen spider, squat at its center, gorged with men's stolen lives."



And here, the story merges with my own looking. Any of us who have given our lives to Christ, will recognize the breaking that happens when we face the awful state of our own sinfulness.  If we let the veil come down, and look at ourselves truthfully, we can say like the Apostle Paul:

"What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death?"
Romans 7:24 NIV


When  the awful state of our hearts is first revealed, if we will listen, we can recognize a Presence there with us in the asking of that question. Our Savior stands beside us with an option.


And it was the same for Orual. In her despair, the only way open that she could see to redeem for her awful deeds was to kill herself, and thus to put an end to the horrible ways.  But just as she was about to enter the river, she heard a voice that she recognized too well, the same voice she had heard with Psyche:



"Do not do it. You cannot escape Ungit by going to the deadlands, for she is there also. Die before you die. There is no chance after."




I will not know the choice that Orual made until I read the final chapters. But I know the choice that I made so many years ago, when first I heard my Savior's call.  Only in choosing to lay down my rights to myself, and to accept His offering, His own death on the cross, would I find redemption for the awful heart in me.  

His Love purchased my freedom

                 His Love brought me back from the brink

                            And His Love bid me die to sin

                                        that I might live with Him.








"For you died,
and your life is now
hidden
with Christ in God."
Colossians 3:3










And in this newness of Life 
where I walk with Jesus,
He uncovers yet new depths
New places in my heart
where He asks me still

Die before you die
There is no chance after.


This journey of walking with Chronic Illness?
How does it fit in with the life of freedom
that I have been promised?

How could something 
that brings MORE pain
lead me to healing?

It is in this very suffering,
this daily dying to my own will,
that I find a precious intimacy
in learning HIS new way of living.


Are you suffering?

Is there an awfulness in your soul?

Jesus stands beside you, my friend,

And bids you follow Him

to die before you die,

and find a LIVING

you never could have dreamed.



In case you missed any posts in this Book Study series, and would like to catch up, an index can be found by 
clicking here


Today I am linking over at 
Literacy Musings Monday #LMMLinkup

Suzie Eller, #LiveFreeThursday





13 comments:

  1. Enjoyed reading - my word for this year is die; very appropriate. :) Thanks for linking up with Literacy Musing Mondays.

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    1. Dear Brandi,
      Thank you for the invitation you offer over at #LMMLinkup! Wow, what a connection from God today. He truly does call us to die each day doesn't He? Oh, but what a gift of Living then He brings to us! --Blessings to you!

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  2. Bettie, somehow I had missed the fact that you are living RA. Congratulations on this milestone, and it's so amazing that you chose to focus on that particular phrase, because it's capturing my attention as I plan my post for next week. I'm asking myself as I read and re-read chapters 3 and 4, "Did Orual manage to die before she died?" I think so, but I wish she had not waited so long.
    Thanks so much for your continual encouragement in this project we've been pursuing together!

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    1. Dear Michele,
      Thank you! I am in awe that God has kept me writing all these days and these posts. He truly has brought such a gift to me through journeying with Him through these days with RA. Oh, I am eager to read your post next week, for the final unit of our study! Orual's stubborn heart has brought conviction to me throughout the story. What Grace we have been offered by our Lord! --Blessings to you!

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  3. Congrats on your 100th post! Enjoy reading your posts. :)

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    1. Thank you Hulda. It blesses me to know that you find joy here. Your words and stories touch my heart also! Blessings to you!

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  4. Congratualtions on your 100th post. Answering God's Call to write is a Gift that keeps on giving. I wish I could sit with you for tea and cake. But this online adventure gives us opportunities our mothers never could have imagined. God bless!

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    1. Thank you Debbie! Yes, you are so right that God brings us so many gifts through these online pages. Before she passed, my Mother was able to have just a taste of these online adventures as we instant messaged and saw images with a live webcam (no sound yet tho) with our son's wife in Vietnam. I'm so thankful for being able to share in your beautiful story through these online pages too! Blessings to you also!

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  5. Die before you die! What a thought! Yes, we must...Jesus told us to take up our cross daily, and each time we do that, we die out to our self, just as Paul said, "I die daily". It certainly takes a daily renewal to keep "our body under" full subjection to the precious Holy Spirit. Thank you for these precious thoughts, Bettie. God bless you, my friend, and congratulations on your 100th Blog post! I am SO thankful you ever minded God's prompting to start this blog and share with us here. What a blessing you are to us all!

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    1. Dear Cheryl, Thank you so much for your kind words! And, yes, it does require that "daily renewal to keep 'our body under' full subjection to the precious Holy Spirit." I appreciate your perspective and understanding dear friend! May the Lord continue to bring His Grace to you on your journey also! Hugs & Blessings!

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  6. Congratulations on 100 posts, Bettie! That’s an accomplishment for anybody, but especially so with arthritis. We’re blessed by your presence and contributions in the blogging community. Thanks for your effort and heart.

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    1. Dear Lisa,
      Thank you for your especially kind words! I am so blessed to be part of this blogging community, and I pray that the Lord will have His way with the words I share. I know that I have so much to learn here! Blessings to you!

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  7. Oh, Bettie, these words are so real to me too:

    "It is in this very suffering,
    this daily dying to my own will,
    that I find a precious intimacy
    in learning HIS new way of living."

    You definitely reflect the heart of our risen Lord in all you share here, my friend. Congratulations on your 100th post! A wonderful achievement for you and a great testimony to God's grace at work in you. Happy writing! May you continue to bless and encourage others in the sharing of your heart. Blessings and congratulatory hugs. xoxo

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